星期五, 8月 13, 2010

Sharing the Book Report Ex-25

13/8/2010
Sharing the Book Report
Ex-25 The Problem of Domestic Violence

(Kar) What was the main cause of domestic violence? The reason was such as marital argument, or managing the children, or one of the family members became addicted to drinking alcohol, gambling and so on. Generally speaking, those spouses or family members were incompatible, thoughtless, less caring for, to cause of domestic violence or family tragedies.

According to the statistics of child abuse, spouse battering and child sexual violence were captured by (CPR) and (CISDSSV) in 2009. The survey of child abuse cases was 993. It included physical abuse 50.7%, neglect 10.3% and child sexual abuse 33.3%. Moreover, it found almost child abusers who were victims’ parents. It’s so sad indeed. They were quite cruel to their children. If those children had not been abused, they would have been happy childhood. In my opinion, being responsible, parents should be loving, care for, kind, to their children and create warming families for them.

Another survey of battered spouse cases pointed out 3,880 (80.7%) victims of physical abuse. They were almost beaten by their husbands. The reasons for battered spouse are numerous: marital argument about each other’s faults or trivial matters, one of loses control of his temper, or poverty and other immoralities etc. Unfortunately, some of the victims committed suicide themselves and forcing young children to die along with them to revenge on their spouses. They were cruel, selfish, to their children since they too loved them. Yet, this is a fact; it’s less wise of them to do so.

If both spouses and family members had tolerated, respected, of different views of other ones, those tragedies in home would not have happened. If they maintained good family life, there would be less of domestic violence. It’s positive for the whole society.